Can My Husband and I Create Intimacy without Sex?

Posted on June 19th, 2008 by olga

Or maybe an affair has made your partner put sex on strike. No matter what the reason, if you’re not having sex, you still can take pleasure in intimacy. It just takes a little work.
You should take the following steps:
1 Be bodily close. Massages, cuddling on the couch at the same time as watching a movie, giving your wife a pedicure or buffing your husband’s nails, are all ways to reach intimacy. You should be kind to each other.
2 Make out like teenagers. Go on dates and then steam up the car windows. This adds a delectable layer of thrill to your relationship that might in fact be more erotic than routine intercourse.
3 Hold hands and never disregard to kiss each other goodnight. These simple ways of remaining physically close are mainly important when there’s no sex.
4 Be emotionally close. Write each other love letters. Note the subtle things that make your spouse good-looking and tell him all about it. Buy him special, thoughtful gifts.
5 Rethink your motives for not wanting to have sex after you’ve completed these other steps. Consult your doctor if there’s a medical reason. If it’s for religious reasons, continue to uphold them. However if it’s for another reason, decide whether you want to live devoid of sex after achieving intimacy from these other techniques.