Unfaithfulness?

Posted on February 25th, 2008 by olga

When it comes to cheating or unfaithfulness, men and women have special motives for doing it.
For men, it’s about sex. Because men are more bodily oriented, and more aim oriented, changes in the marriage frequently lead them to look outside marriage for fulfillment and take-over. A wife’s pregnancy, a few extra pounds, a loss of spontaneity in the relationship all contribute to the likelihood that a man will search for sex outside of marriage.

For women, it’s about the emotional fulfillment. At the same time as unfaithfulness for men habitually engages the physical, many women limit their affairs to emotional attachment. When a woman finds herself keep out emotionally, she will look for close relationship outside marriage. This applies to women who work and those who are at home full time.

Typically for the reason that their need is for deeper emotional link, women’s affairs last three times longer than men’s. Four Risky Periods.

Even though a situation can take place any time, they are more likely to happen for the period of four periods of the marital or life cycle:
1) First year of marriage: for the reason that couples don’t wait for to be tempted for the duration of this time, they habitually find themselves blindsided by unsuitable relationships
2) After the first child is born: for the reason of stress, fatigue, post-partum recovery, new emotional attachments to the baby all factor in to the boost.
3) The fifth to seventh anniversary: typically by this time, the newness of the relationship has worn off, the pair is getting settled with a family and a home. It tends to be a time of either settling in or looking for something new.
4) Mid-life crisis: This time of self-searching is produced by key events like children leaving home, considerable anniversaries, and bodily changes.

To defend against temptations in the direction of unfaithfulness, you have to make your marriage a priority.