Does the Length of the Relationship Matter?
It’s really true that the longer the relationship the huger the risk the pair will fall into bad habits. Numerous men fail to remember how to romance their wives. A man who treats his wife like a girlfriend is a man who will have a lover for a wife. Passion is not a given. It has to be planted and cared for. It takes skill and knowledge. To increase that skill a pair has to make the promise to learn from one another and to find out what is enjoyable. A back rub for one woman may be more sexually pleasing than direct genital stimulation.
For the duration of the courting stage of a relationship the focus is on one another. This is extremely enjoyable. Who doesn’t want such interest? On the other hand, once the relationship turns out to be institutionalized, attention too often shifts to competing interests like friends, work, hobbies and children. It then becomes a most important challenge to remain the marriage alive.
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